Finding a home

Sometimes picking a house can be more than confusing.

Sometimes you are not quite sure what it is that you need right now in that perfect house of yours, but when you look enough houses, you come to a conclusion. 

Sometimes you know exactly what you need from the house to be able set your life. And you might find it, but the feeling of a home is not there yet. 

Sometimes you enter a house, and you got the feeling of a home. Even all the standards don’t mach. Yet.

Or maybe you start to build your own house. You have your own standards and feelings.

In rare occasions you are not even looking for a home, but it finds you, sort of, when you suddenly stand on the doorway everything fits. And you move in.

Whichever the houses you choose, you make a decision between feeling and reason. The house that seems perfect outside can give a bad feeling or no feeling at all. But you can start building the feeling of home to that place. Then you have the other house with the feeling, but less comforts. It´s easy to enter that home, but it might need some fixing outside. Both of the options are good; finding both of them in one packet can be hard.  And making your own house completely from the scratch you have to be very sure to build your foundations strong, lasting and with love so that it´s easy to enter and feel like home. And in all the cases you have to step out from your own door way once in a while, not to desire other homes, but to look an inspiration to yours. You´ll attract more of what you have around you. And you keep your home fit, as long as the feeling´s there.  And if it´s time to move out and move on, make sure the value is higher. For others it might be just what they are looking for.

Finding a house; it´s like finding a man in your life. Keeping the house; it´s a relationship. Sometimes it lasts for a lifetime and sometimes letting go is a part of life. But while it´s there, keep it well.